Pronouns 101
Pronouns. You may have seen them being used more and more often in people’s email signatures, on LinkedIn accounts, social media profiles, Zoom names, meetings, and certainly in interactions with folks in your day-to-day lives.
We invite you to think about what inclusion means when it comes to respecting others’ pronouns so that we can make space for everyone to feel included, valued, and respected. This is something so many of us strive for but don’t always know how to do effectively or appropriately.
Basics of Pronoun Use
In early March 2023, the Office of Equity, Diversity, and Inclusion in collaboration with Quinn Bennett from People and Culture, hosted two live sessions for Langara employees around the basics of pronoun use.
Session recording
Please note that the recording explains more thoroughly and goes into much more detail than the PDF of the slides. We recommend not relying solely on this PDF for your understanding.
*The Office of Equity, Diversity, and Inclusion was previously known as The Centre for Intercultural Engagement.
If you have any comments or additional information you’d like to share with us, questions can be sent directly to our office at edioffice@langara.ca.
Curated Resources
We are aware this is not an exhaustive list and welcome input from the community. If you have suggestions for articles, podcasts, webinars, events, etc., we invite you to contact our office at edioffice@langara.ca.
For more resources, visit our 2SLGBTQIA+ page.
Useful websites
Why it matters
- What Are Pronouns? Why Do They Matter? (external link) (Pronouns.org)
- Understanding Pronouns (external link) (LGBT Life Center)
- Gender Pronouns | LGBTQ+ Resource Center (external link) (University of Wisconsin LGBTQ+ Resource Center)
- TI's Guide to Pronouns (external link)
(Transgender Training Institute Inc.)
How to share & how to ask
- How Do I Share My Pronouns? (external link) (Pronouns.org)
- How to Share Your New Pronouns: A Guide for All Ages (external link) (Folx Health)
- How Do I Ask Someone Their Pronouns? (external link) (Pronouns.org)
- How Do I Use Your Pronouns Correctly? (external link) (Pronouns.org)
- A Guide to Pronouns: How and When to Share Your Pronouns (external link) (Meghan Olson)
Making mistakes
- What If I Make a Pronouns Mistake? (external link) (Pronouns.org)
- What if I make a mistake? (external link) (University of Wisconsin LGBTQ+ Resource Center)
- Making Mistakes (external link) (TransCare BC)
Other Useful Websites
- A Guide to Understanding Gender Identity and Pronouns (external link)
(NPR)
Understanding Gender (external link) (Gender Spectrum)
SOGI 123 (external link) (sogieducation.org)
Videos
Why it matters
- Why My Pronouns Matter (external link) (CBC)
- Why Pronouns Matter (external link) (Columbia University)
How to share & how to ask
- Pronouns 101 (external link) (The Diversity Movement)
Best practices for pronouns
They/Them Pronoun Tips
- How to get people to use your correct pronouns (external link) (Jeffrey Marsh)
Articles
'I Can Exist Here': On Gender Identity, Some Colleges Are Opening Up (external link) (NPR)
- Take a look at a class roster at the University of Vermont. You'll see the usual stuff there — last name, student ID and class year. But you'll also see something else. Next to some names, there are pronouns: "he" or "she," but also the gender nonspecific "they" or "ze." They may seem like a few more words on paper, but for some students, like Jeane Robles, having pronouns on the roster means a lot.
Using Inclusive Language in the Workplace: An Introduction (external link) (Wellness Works Canada)
- Engaging employees in initiatives surrounding their health, safety, and well-being helps ensure that their needs are being appropriately addressed. One way to promote effective collaboration and show respect is to encourage the use of inclusive language in the workplace.
‘Trans-forming’ the Workplace to Be Transgender Inclusive (external link) (Standford Social Innovation Review)
- Transgender and gender-nonconforming people often run into unnecessary barriers that make their jobs harder than they need to be. Here are 10 actions that social sector organizations can take to help.
Your Journey - A Career Guide for Trans and Nonbinary Students (external link) (University of Toronto)
- This guide aims to help trans and nonbinary students and recent alumni to figure out their career possibilities, connect to resources, effectively apply for jobs, and excel in their career. There are questions that this guide won’t be able to answer, but the hope is that it provides you with a solid starting point for taking the next steps in your career
Podcasts
Pronouns and Gender Identity: A Better Workplace (external link)
- DEI consultant Stephanie Battaglino speaks with Jane and Colin about the challenges trans and gender non-conforming communities face in and out of the workplace. They discuss practical steps each of us can take to be better allies and make our workplaces more inclusive.
Improve It! Podcast: How to Support Your Transgender Employees (external link)
- DEI consultant Tara Robertson joins the show to discuss strategies for supporting trans and nonbinary employees.
Additional resources
- You may have noticed that people are sharing their pronouns in introductions, on nametags, and when GSA meetings begin. This is happening to make spaces more inclusive of transgender, gender nonconforming, and gender non-binary people. Including pronouns is a first step toward respecting people’s gender identity, working against cisnormativity, and creating a more welcoming space for people of all genders
Gender Inclusive Language Cards (external link) (QMUNITY)
- Shifting to gender-inclusive language respects and acknowledges the gender identities of all people and removes assumptions.